When my mother went in to have her diagnostic laparotomy for metastatic disease, my father said that he knew everything was going to be okay because the surgeon had “beautiful, clean, well-kept hands.”
Since that day 10 years ago, I have started to take more notice of hands. As a doctor, the state of a patient’s hands, and feet, can suggest underlying disease, hygiene, social situation. Manicured fingers, dirt under nails, dry skin, scabies rashes, diabetic ulcers, clubbed nails of hypoxia.
As I look down at my own hands, though, I’m constantly ashamed.
Confession: I bite my nails. Not my nails, exactly, and not biting, technically. I pick my cuticles. It’s gross, I know. Disgusting, I get it. It’s an infection risk, a way for patients’ MRSA, fungus, and ESBL infections to get inside. A risk for herpetic whitlow, paronychia. There is an official medical name: Onychophagia. It looks unkempt. I KNOW.
I’ve tried getting regular manicures, but that gets a) expensive and b) time consuming. I tried moisturizing, creams, potions, and lotions and gels and ointments. I’ve read blogs. (link below). This repetitive behavior is SO HARD TO KICK.
Over time, we as individuals develop so many different habits and routines. The way we brush our teeth, which side of the bed we sleep on, which shoe or pant leg goes on first. What we eat for breakfast, which coffee we order, what we reach for when in need of comfort. Take a minute to pay attention to the things that make up your daily routine. We are creatures of habit.
Diet and lifestyle habits and routines are hard to change as well. With all the focus on “new year new you,” the explosion of health and fitness “influencers” on Instagram, and the renewed energy that comes with a dedication to a new diet, eating plan, workout regimen, or health motivation, it should be easy. We have so many cheerleaders; however, ingrained habits require a lot of mental energy to change.
So I definitely have a little more compassion for patients when they tell me it is hard to take a new medication, change their eating habits, work out more. I can’t seem to do it myself, honestly. (My 15 lbs- 4 years post baby- prove that) The constant reminder of my raw hands is the sign of a continuous struggle.
How do you motivate change? Have you found success with breaking a habit or changing your diet or lifestyle? What resources do you use, or guide your patients to?
Blogs I referenced:
https://www.glamour.com/story/how-to-stop-picking-your-cuticles-tips
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